Here’s a little tip for all you guys who wish to find a date online: Women, even very beautiful women, like to be approached by a confident and interesting man.
Surprised? Well you better don’t be.…it’s 100% true…and confident and interesting are much more important than looks to ladies of all ages. That’s true for online dating, as well as, dating in your brick and mortar world but we’re talking about internet dating here…so back to the subject at hand.
Once you have signed up for any good free online dating site, you will notice that the number of male members far outnumber female members and that the men are much more likely to browse profiles and make initial contacts than women.
Agreed , it’s a woman’s world…still, It’s “conventional” for men to take the initiative and make the first move. It always has been and it always will be. Some things never change. That’s why your profile and picture are so important.
Mind you…confident and interesting….and that does NOT mean cocky and self-centered. It’s critically important that your profile lets other members know that you have friends you care about and that you are passionately interested in a variety of things…not JUST sports.
It’s important that the profile should create basic trust that you are not some bot. Another thing about that all-important profile….please don’t start it with, “I’m the guy your mama warned you about”.
You will have just shot yourself in the foot with that line. Another one to never use is, “I could be the man of your dreams”. The lady HOPES you are but HER decide on that …so do not insult her intelligence.
Remember….exude warmth, confidence and charm and you will find that lady you have been looking for…or she will find you.
Wouldn’t it be wonderful to have the ladies contact you instead of you having to do everything? Well if you write a compelling profile that stands out in the crowd, that will surely happen to you.
Surprised? Well you better don’t be.…it’s 100% true…and confident and interesting are much more important than looks to ladies of all ages. That’s true for online dating, as well as, dating in your brick and mortar world but we’re talking about internet dating here…so back to the subject at hand.
Once you have signed up for any good free online dating site, you will notice that the number of male members far outnumber female members and that the men are much more likely to browse profiles and make initial contacts than women.
Agreed , it’s a woman’s world…still, It’s “conventional” for men to take the initiative and make the first move. It always has been and it always will be. Some things never change. That’s why your profile and picture are so important.
Mind you…confident and interesting….and that does NOT mean cocky and self-centered. It’s critically important that your profile lets other members know that you have friends you care about and that you are passionately interested in a variety of things…not JUST sports.
It’s important that the profile should create basic trust that you are not some bot. Another thing about that all-important profile….please don’t start it with, “I’m the guy your mama warned you about”.
You will have just shot yourself in the foot with that line. Another one to never use is, “I could be the man of your dreams”. The lady HOPES you are but HER decide on that …so do not insult her intelligence.
Remember….exude warmth, confidence and charm and you will find that lady you have been looking for…or she will find you.
Wouldn’t it be wonderful to have the ladies contact you instead of you having to do everything? Well if you write a compelling profile that stands out in the crowd, that will surely happen to you.
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