Don’t treat online dating as a Contest

Free online dating sites
are not a battlefield amongst guys for the attention of a lady of your dreams. The mind set needs to be changed from “winning” to “searching”. Grow up guys! This ain’t high school . You are all grown up and have been for quite some time, now. Attitude is the most important asset you have. First of all you should like yourself and accept yourself.

What do women want after all , you may well be wondering. That’s an age old question. Being a female myself, I can tell you a few things women want and don’t want.

Women want a man to be confident yet gentle…NOT a cocky arrogant jerk. There’s a lot of difference between the two. You need to like yourself and not be self depreciating but men who think they are a gift to women out there are a HUGE turn off for almost all the women. No man can live up to that expectation so just be honest and realistic.

Women dig a great communicator. There are some of us who like the ‘strong and silent type’ too; but it’s more about striking the right balance really. Women want you to be interesting enough to want to know more about you and they want you to think that they are interesting enough to ask intelligent questions about what is important to them, too.

Women do NOT want to a trophy. It’s all about being respectful and yet playful enough to keep the women engaged. They desire to be THE ONE woman that you want to live with. Best of luck to all you guys out there.

Online Dating For All You Single Men

No matter what your height, weight, age or physical appearance, there are thousands, possibly millions of women out there searching for their ‘the one” and eager to meet you…Some could be looking for casual dating while most would be wanting a long term relationships.

So if you have been too busy with your work to spend a lot of time looking for a lady to keep you company or if you are back on the dating scene after a break up online dating can be your answer to finding love life again.

The good news is that you don’t need much to get started.
All you require is a computer with an internet connection to get started.
The first thing to do is find an online dating site that fits your needs. There are plenty of those these days to choose from offering a wide range of services.

Good established sites offer many add on services like live webcam chat, video chat and even match you up with women using your profiles. Then there are lots of niche dating sites too that cater to special interests like religious preferences, outdoor enthusiasts, gays, etc.

All you need to do is choose a quality website that suits your needs. Again you have a choice to choose from free dating site or paid subscription one . Make sure you choose a site with Quality members rather than just going for quantity.

Each version ( free or paid ) has its own set of advantages and disadvantages but the final choice rests with you.

The next thing you need to do is write a kickass, but honest, profile and upload some appealing and recent photos of yourself. That’s it. Now you are all set. You can browse profiles and contact ladies whose profiles sound interesting to you and answer any lady who contacts you…and make sure you do so promptly…not, however, on holidays or weekends. NEVER come across as desperate. Respect is the keyword here. Don’t give up if you don’t get responses initially. Keep tweaking your profile till it works well. New people are constantly joining online dating services daily and a good percentage of them are ladies, many of whom, will want to meet you. \

Who says Online Dating is Tough?

Here’s a little tip for all you guys who wish to find a date online: Women, even very beautiful women, like to be approached by a confident and interesting man.

Surprised? Well you better don’t be.…it’s 100% true…and confident and interesting are much more important than looks to ladies of all ages. That’s true for online dating, as well as, dating in your brick and mortar world but we’re talking about internet dating here…so back to the subject at hand.

Once you have signed up for any good free online dating site, you will notice that the number of male members far outnumber female members and that the men are much more likely to browse profiles and make initial contacts than women.

Agreed , it’s a woman’s world…still, It’s “conventional” for men to take the initiative and make the first move. It always has been and it always will be. Some things never change. That’s why your profile and picture are so important.

Mind you…confident and interesting….and that does NOT mean cocky and self-centered. It’s critically important that your profile lets other members know that you have friends you care about and that you are passionately interested in a variety of things…not JUST sports.

It’s important that the profile should create basic trust that you are not some bot. Another thing about that all-important profile….please don’t start it with, “I’m the guy your mama warned you about”.

You will have just shot yourself in the foot with that line. Another one to never use is, “I could be the man of your dreams”. The lady HOPES you are but HER decide on that …so do not insult her intelligence.

Remember….exude warmth, confidence and charm and you will find that lady you have been looking for…or she will find you.

Wouldn’t it be wonderful to have the ladies contact you instead of you having to do everything? Well if you write a compelling profile that stands out in the crowd, that will surely happen to you.

Tips for Men for successful online dating

With each passing day, people seem to be taking to free online dating sites like a swan takes to water…why? Simple! Because it seems to be working. Generally speaking, women are little apprehensive about meeting a man that she has just met online. Most of the things they have heard about are the scary things that can or have happened with others and, I would say, they have full right to be extremely careful. That’s not only wise but vital.

So as a “nice guy” what do you do? You are neither a pervert nor a sexual predator nor a weirdo either . You are just a nice guy looking for “the one ” lady for you.

You ought to be patient. Do NOT press her for personal information like her phone number or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until you build trust. She has to feel comfortable talking with you online. Never try to rush her into meeting face-to-face in the first session itself. You might come across as desperate or a pervert. Patience is a virtue guys !

Another critical point : Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and also with your job. Good relationships are built on foundation of trust. They have never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. The truth will emerge sooner or later anyway and there you are back at square one.

The saying that a picture really is worth a thousand words is indeed true. Positively post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday normal activities and preferably make them full body shots, not just face shots. If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn’t just see your face.

Once you decide on meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet at some public place, during daylight hours. After all, you don’t have anything to hide. You’ve been honest with her and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. The only thing left is to make her feel safe meeting you.

So go all out & best luck guys ;)

The Advantages of Online Dating for Women

In the late 1990’s, online dating was a brand new idea. Most people did not own PC’s like today nor did they have access to the broadband internet. But the times have changed. Online dating is not only IN the mainstream, it IS the mainstream.

There are number of socio-economic reasons for the phenomenal growth of online dating sites and the number of people, men and women of all ages, races and religions who use them as their primary source for meeting people and looking for “the one”.

Well you need not believe me. The statistics are all over the place. Also you can just ask your friends in the “real” world. If they are honest, most of them agree that they have or are using an online dating service.

There are literally hundreds of reasons why thousands of people sign up for free dating sites everyday,

(1) Anonymity: Well you can be totally anonymous. You never need to give your real name, address, email address, phone number or place of employment to another online user. Of course, you may do so but only at your own discretion and only when you completely trust the other user and feel safe. You are neither required to post a picture of yourself mandatorily. However, posting a picture significantly increases the responses to your profile. So you can browse through literally thousands of other members on the dating site you have joined with complete anonymity.

(2) Widest Choice: You have enormous choice of meeting a cross section of interesting people online than you do in your brick and mortar world. Before the advent of free online dating sites, our choice of friends and even of lifetime partners was limited to those we came in contact with through social circle like college or work. NOT any more …the world is your oyster. Literally. You can browse through hundreds…even thousands of profiles to find the right man for you.

(3) SAFETY: The “safety factor” is the biggest advantage. An online dating site will never reveal your privacy information and you get full control over who you choose to correspond with based on your own preferences.

Hmm…can you really find Mr. Right Online?

With the avalanche of free dating sites and social networking sites the chances of finding your “soul-mate” online are a lot better than they were say a 3-4 years ago. Of course it doesn’t happen for everyone, but it can happen for you. The world of internet or free online dating has exploded over the last few years.

Our lives are getting busier and busier each day and it demands that we utilize our time and energy most efficiently while searching for the one man who will make our lives complete.

The old saying, “You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find a princess” is no longer true. All the leading free dating sites let you browse thousands of profiles and look at the pictures that go with them without charging you a dime. That saves time as you can customize your search.

These are some compelling reasons to consider online dating:

There is a wide range of suitable men to choose from. You aren’t restricted to the guys in your work environment or social circle.

You get the chance to get to know a lot about a guy before you even contact him for the first time. You can know his age, marital status, his location, parental status, his physical attributes like height/weight and his likes and dislikes all from his profile. You can even see his pictures.

You have a better chance to present yourself in a favorable way. This especially comes in handy for those of us who are shy. We have time to think about how we want to say things about ourselves and can avoid being tongue tied. Even those who are more extroverted can take time to reflect on who they really are before writing their online profile.

Online dating is certainly a time saver & every single looking for soul mate should give 100% free dating sites a try. You can meet so many more men in a lot less time than you ever could out in the real world.

My first MAJOR seo project update

so for the past 3 weeks or so i've been involved in promoting a FREE internet dating site . The site offers all the dating services 100% free unlike the paid counterparts who charge monthly subscription fees from the members.

the site has started to move up steadily but surely.
this is gonna be one HUGE project as the online dating niche is one of THE most competitive niche on internet. 
The competion is fierce but then that's what makes this so much more fun & challenging.

The site in question, has inherent advantages in the sense that the design code is clean.
My vision for the domain is to make it synonymous with the word free online dating....just the way craigslist is synonymous with classifieds today. 

Hola everyone

i'm totally new to this site so hello everyone.
i'll need some time to look around asto what the site is really allabout.
i hope i can squeeze some time on regular basis to post here :)